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I Is for Infertility
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If you missed the first part of this series, please go back and read Part 1 here.

Leaving my initial consultation with the Naturapath, I left with new multi-vitamins, herbs, homeopathy, and fish oils.  I was to return in a month to review changes.  In that month, I noticed changes in energy, moods, and quality of sleep foremost.  From out initial appointment, I began to make further changes to our diet.  I got very serious about eliminating aspartame in our diet and began eliminating high fructose corn syrup.  We began eating even more whole foods, but not nearly to the effect we do today.  Baby steps.  We definitely took baby steps.

An interesting thing I began to do was chart my basal body temperature.  This is when you use a specific basal body temperature thermometer to take your temperature each morning.  You take it as soon as you wake up, before really even moving, and preferably around the same time each morning.  This allowed me to start to learn more about my cycles and to see what the herb, Vitex aka Chaste Tree Berry, was doing for me.  The Naturapath wanted to see this data after a month and again at my three month checkup.  After three months, I had seen the Vitex work on the regularity of my cycles, estrogen levels, and progesterone levels.  It even helped with PMS!  If you are trying to conceive and have not yet charted your cycles, I recommend you look into it after 6 months of actively trying.  A great resource to help you with instruction and “record-keeping” is Fertility Friend.

As I a part of this three month interval, between my 1 and 3 month follow-up appointments, I decided to go back to my Ob/Gyn.  I wanted the further blood work and testing to check hormone levels, thyroid function, and even my dear husband’s sperm count.  This was our July 4th weekend.  All our tests were taken on Friday and we impatiently waited for Monday’s results.  It tore at our hearts thinking of the possibilities.  See, we both knew, if a man’s sperm count is low, the only way to really get pregnant is #1 By the grace of God and #2 with the help of In Vitro fertilization.    We both knew this option was out for us, at this time, financially.  It was a grueling waiting weekend.  I have the up most respect for any couple that does go through fertility treatments, such as In Uterine Insemination and In Vitro Fertilization.  I. CAN. NOT. IMAGINE.

We passed!  We passed with flying colors!  All of our tests came back “normal.”  My doctor referred me to a fertility specialist, since we had been trying to conceive for over a year.  My tests showed nothing he could assist us with at this time.  I started to think about the “what if” of seeing a fertility specialist.  I had my three month check up with the Natropathic doctor.  Since we were seeing changes in my health, I decided to give us more time.  She recommended to give the Vitex AT LEAST six months.  November would be that six month mark for me.

November came and I still was not pregnant.  I said a prayer.  I made the initial consultation with the fertility specialist.  In my heart, I knew we couldn’t afford much.  BUT, I also knew in my heart if I didn’t at least go to that initial consultation, I would always think “what if.”

Next week, my answers to the “what if.”  Be sure to subscribe via your RSS reader or receive updates in your inbox for free, to hear the rest of my story.  Thank you to those reading along and hanging in there with me.  I have a lot planned for the upcoming months.  This month, I’ve just taken a step back to write once a week…this story.  I can’t wait to share with you about my list of “12 Things” to start in September.

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Secondary infertility is defined by a person and/or couple being unable to conceive a child after one year of “well-timed” sexual intercourse, whom have previously conceived a child.  My husband and I fall into this category of 6 out of every 10 couples currently struggling with infertility.  Yes, it is believed more couples struggle with secondary infertility versus primarily infertility.  Primary infertility is diagnosed to the couples who have never been able to conceive a child.  Secondary infertility is believed to be under reported due to many couples never seeking infertility guidance and/or help.  They feel they have one ch

ild and do not think of infertility and/or choose not to take the path of treatments.

May 2008 began our journey.  We had always said we would like our children 2.5 – 4 years apart in age, so we thought.  The end of May was my last ever birth control pill.  To conceive in June would have been a little shy of 2.5 years apart, but we decided we would be okay with it.  Keep in mind, our first child was conceived on our honeymoon. ;)   Months passed with no success, but we still didn’t worry or stress about it.  We had time on our side.  Really, we still do.

I Is for Infertility
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A year passes and it is April 2009.  We have seen more and more friends conceive children, deliver children, and babies crying in our presence.  It wasn’t always easy.  No one really knew we were trying to conceive (TTC) our second child.  A few people did.  A very few.  My ob/gyn said he could prescribe clomiphene citrate (commonly called Clomid), but he didn’t feel ovulation was my problem.  I had gotten positives on ovulation perdictor kits (OPKs), he had recommended I try.  He also went over the side affects, which are mild, but they exist.  I chose to opt out at the time.

Prior to this annual exam, I had already begun to make some changes in our lives.  In January, I was introduced to the Cosmetic Safety Database, Skin Deep, and other articles about the safety of many products.  This was all triggered by a question about bathroom cleaner! :D   I immediately began researching safer alternatives to skin care, cosmetics, shampoos, soaps, lotions, and more.  Our skin is the largest organ of our body and it is permeable.  Unlike toxins you eat, toxins lathered onto your skin are not filtered through your liver.  They take residence in your tissues.  Toxins can literally make you fat.  They love our fat cells and wrecking havoc on our body.  We threw out the toxins and quit using products and/or found safer alternatives, like miessence.

So when I was given the option to try clomid for up to six cycles, I chose to do more praying and research.  I found a local Natropathic Doctor.  They are doctors in natural medicine.  My first appointment was on April 24, 2009.  My decision was based on the fact that this doctor would take into account my overall health, not just my infertility symptoms.  I figured if I was going to fork out money, why not to someone who can help me reach optimum health naturally?  At least, I would get healthier, lose some weight maybe, and learn something new.  Did I ever!?  After a 2.5 hour initial consultation appointment, I left feeling renewed and hopeful.  It was so refreshing to speak with a doctor who wanted to know ALL about me and assess my OVERALL health situation.

Next week, I’ll tell you about my appointment, my followup, and maybe our dreaded 4th of July.  Subscribe for free in your RSS feed or receive updates in your inbox, so you don’t miss a bit of our journey.

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Yellow Rose of Texas
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Today marks a day that I will forever remember: the day that my second child was due.  God has been nudging on my heart to share my story with you for months.  Seriously. For. Months.  I’ve been grieving. I’ve been hopeful.  I am at peace.  Really.  Truly.  I am.

Then, I drive home from a baby shower or my sweet, sweet, precious peanut asks for a baby sister.  My heart crumbles all over again.  I maintain my composure.  God gives me strength.  He truly has led me to a place of peace.  But just like any loss of a loved one, I miss him.  Yes, I said him.  I don’t know if my unborn second child was a him or her, but in my heart, I truly believe “it” was a him.  My son.  It breaks my heart to think of him.  Oh how I miss him today.  This week.  Every day.  He will forever be a part of me.

Yes, I only held him in my womb for a short 7.5 weeks, but oh how I loved him.  Oh how I will remember him all over again at Christmas time, when I lost him.  Don’t get me wrong, I love Christmas and won’t walk around crying.  I’ll just look around every so often and just think of him.  Him up in heaven celebrating with our Father.  Your Father.  My Father.  Really, what better place to be?  I am at peace.

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” John 14:27

In honor of my sweet child in heaven, I am going to share my story.  My story of secondary infertility.  Be sure to subscribe by RSS or receive updates in your email inbox.  It’s free and than you won’t miss the rest of the story over next week.  Please pray that God will give me strength, courage, and the words he wants you or someone you may know, to hear.

Now for the words that hold me on days like today and so many other days, sang by JJ Heller:

“Your Hands”

I have unanswered prayers
I have trouble I wish wasn’t there
And I have asked a thousand ways
That you would take my pain away
You would take my pain away

I am trying to understand
How to walk this weary land
Make straight the paths that crooked lie
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine

When my world is shaking, heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave your hands

When you walked upon the earth
You healed the broken, lost and hurt
I know you hate to see me cry
One day you will set all things right
Yeah, one day you will set all things right

When my world is shaking, heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave your hands

Your hands that shaped the world
Are holding me
They hold me still

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Balloons!
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Today marks six months since Traditional Simplicity’s birth, the day I purchased “her” domain name.  Reviewing the last six month, I sure have learned quite a bit about blogging.  I have made some new friends in the blogosphere, many of which, I’m praying to meet at the Relevant Blogging Conference.  If you could say a prayer for all those seeking sponsorship for Relevant, we would all appreciate it.  Now, for some highlights of the last six months:

Most Popular Posts:

  1. My Real Food Disclaimer
  2. Nourished Kitchen: Keep the Bounty
  3. Why I Want to Attend Relevant
  4. Fats: Toss the Margarine, Buy Butter
  5. Real Food Weightloss
  6. Aspartame: Eliminate It

Thank You to These Sites for Sending Me Visitors (mostly via blog carnival opportunities):

  1. Kelly the Kitchen Kop
  2. Kitchen Stewardship
  3. Raising Homemakers
  4. Food Renegade
  5. We Are THAT Family
  6. GNOWFGLINS

Six Topics I Plan to Highlight the Next 6 Months:

  1. Homemaking – cooking, cleaning, being a mom, raising a homemaker
  2. Real Food – nutrition, recipes, and farming
  3. Weight loss and Fitness – things we have done and are doing
  4. Frugality/Money – management tips, frugal tips, things we do to save money
  5. Organic and Natural Products – miessence and other products I use
  6. Giveaways and Reviews – coconut oil review coming, book reviews, and hopefully more ;-)

Do you notice the trend of six?  Well, I have some Miessence Rejuvenating Skin Essentials Sample Sachets lying around here.  For those of you with dry mature, aging skin, this is the skin essentials care package for you!  The Rejuvenating Skin Essentials includes the cleaner, skin conditioner, and moisturizer.  Six readers will randomly be chosen to receive sample sachets from me via random.org.

To enter: Simply leave a comment below telling me what you look forward to reading on Traditional Simplicity the next six months.

For extra entries (leave a separate comment for each entry):

  1. “Like” Traditional Simplicity on Facebook
  2. Follow me on Twitter @TradSimplicity
  3. Tweet about the giveaway on Twitter and/or Share about the giveaway on Facebook.

Giveaway will end Thursday, August 5th at 11:59pm EST – tomorrow night!

Thank you too all of my readers for a fabulous first six month and sticking around as I learn about blogging.  I look forward to getting to know each of you better over the next six months!

Blessings,

Michelle :)

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Preserved food in Mason jars
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Jenny, the owner of Nourished Kitchen, is doing another challenge. This time it is for the month of August and helping us learn to preserve foods traditionally: the Keep the Bounty Challenge. Each week, she will send out an e-mail to participants. The e-mail will cover a form of traditional preserving, which means not using a canner or heat. She will cover sun drying, oil curing, freezing, fermentation, and salt-curing.

In the past, I have canned beef stewing cubes with my mom. I have helped my mom with freezing corn for many years.  The most memorable years are since about age 15. LOTS of corn in our family. :) This past Monday was my first experience preserving peaches. I canned 1/2 bushel of peaches with my grandmother, which made 14 quarts. It really should have only made maybe ten, but I let my daughter fill some. I thoroughly enjoyed preserving the peaches and love the idea of eating them this winter. Pickles are next on my list.

This course couldn’t come during a much better time, to learn how to preserve naturally. My biggest concern is taste. I have UNSUCCESSFULLY tried to make sauerkraut by fermentation twice. The jars exploded the first time (filled them too full) and the second time was WAY too salty. So, I really hope that I have success with some traditional preserving.  I am also looking forward to spending this time together in the kitchen, with my daughter.  What better way for her to learn about foods, preserving, nutrition, and just some good times together!  She was so darn cute washing peaches and filling some of the quart jars.  The memory must be repeated!

Do you preserve any fruits and/or vegetables by freezing, fermenting, sun drying, oil curing, salt curing, or even canning in a water bath? I’d love to know what and how you do it and/or your experiences. I just may call upon you for some advice in the upcoming days and weeks!

I am linking this post up to Raising Homemakers Homemaking Link-Up.  If you have a daughter or just want to learn some great things about keeping a home, visit this great, inspirational site!

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